Where oh where could my wedding dress be?

So many stores -- so little time. If you’re getting married this year and you’re still scanning the racks for the perfect wedding dress, you know it’s true! Rather than spending another day trying on a dressing room full of not-quite-right dresses, take a deep breath, relax and rethink your shopping strategy.

 

If you feel like your sense of style is getting lost because you’ve tried on so many gowns, take a little time to imagine your ideal dress. Then jot down your ideas. Writing things down is great way to collect your thoughts. If you’re more visual, try sketching your ideas. If you like what you see, take it with you to your next bridal appointment and show it to your consultant. If she knows her stock, she’ll be able help you find a dress that has the elements you’re looking for.

Maybe you’ve already done that and realized the style you liked really didn’t work well for your body type. For a little renewed inspiration, pick up new bridal magazines. As you flip through the pages, pay attention to the sorts of styles, colors and fabrics that make you “ooo” and “ahhh.” Tear out those pages and look back over your choices. You’ll start to see a pattern and your new fashion direction.

Finally, if big bridal stores like David’s Bridal have given you “too many” choices, try searching online for wedding boutiques in your area. Boutiques generally have less to choose from but their stock is more tailored to brides looking for specific looks -- from high-fashion to vintage.

Rethink your shopping approach, you’ll find “The One.” Your dress is out there just waiting to be found!